Are you a single woman who is ready to use this phase of life to:
- Re-evaluate what's important to you?
- Get clear on what you want in this life?
- Feel confident and excited about life?
- Create the foundation for choosing healthy love?
Then Consciously Single was designed for you!
You don't have to wait for a partner to start living the life you want. Learn to create a life you genuinely love — and become the woman who chooses partnership from alignment, not desperation. You don't want to coast through this season on autopilot and miss all the benefits of being single.
Free 30-minute call · No pressure, no pitch.
You know that moment.
You're genuinely happy for your friend with the new relationship — but underneath the smile, there's that little ache. When is it going to be my turn? Your life is full on the outside, but deep down you're still waiting for the relationship that will finally make it feel complete. Because you don't just want a partner. You want to feel at home in your own life.
There is another way. What if you used this season to become deeply connected to yourself — and learned to love your life without giving up your desire for partnership? Relationship with self is the critically necessary element to land your perfect relationship.
That's why I created my signature tool The Whole Woman Method™: transforming the relationship you have with yourself, so you approach love from alignment rather than the need to be chosen.
You can't outsource it
You can't expect someone else to prioritize you when you consistently abandon your own priorities. You can't ask someone to see and know you deeply when you haven't taken the time to see and know yourself.
Rooted, not self-sufficient
The goal isn't to become someone who doesn't need love. It's to become so rooted in yourself that you enter a relationship because you genuinely want that person — not because you need someone to validate your worth or fill the space where your relationship with yourself should be.
End the cycles
Break the frustrating patterns that keep recreating the same relationship experiences — and learn to recognize genuine alignment instead of confusing chemistry with compatibility. Learn to show up as your true self, not as a people pleaser or someone you think they will like and therefore choose.
Hi, I'm Julie.
For most of my career, I’ve studied and supported change in the brain as a speech-language pathologist—working with adults and children with traumatic brain injuries, incarcerated teens, and newborns through toddlers with developmental delays. I’ve had the extraordinary opportunity to observe the human brain and human relationships across the lifespan, from the very beginning of life to the end.
I’ve studied parent-child relationships, attachment, and the ways our earliest experiences shape how we see ourselves and show up in relationship with others. I have a particular gift for helping people see what they can’t yet see in themselves—bringing awareness to the patterns, beliefs, conditioning, and past experiences that shape their choices and their results.
And then comes the part I love most: using that awareness and clarity to make new choices, create new beliefs, and experience new results.
This is my purpose. I’m here to elevate human consciousness—to help people become more aware, more connected to themselves, and more intentional about the lives they are creating. I consider myself part of a much larger movement of people who are here, right now, to support a profound shift in the way human beings experience this life.
The transformation
From waiting for your life to begin — to living it now.
Over six months, you can expect to develop:
A deeper connection with yourself
Intimately acquainted with your values, desires, boundaries, and dreams.
Self-love that is lived, not talked about
Choosing yourself, honoring yourself — a whole person, with or without a partner.
A life that isn't on hold
Traveling, creating, trying new things — and choosing love from alignment, not need.
Your relationship status stops defining the quality of your life.
THE FIRST DOMINO
Your transformation doesn’t happen all at once. It starts with one honest conversation that creates clarity, opens new possibilities, and sets a chain reaction in motion.
The call that can change it all. It's your choice.
A free, 30-minute, honest conversation about where you are, where you want to be, and what’s standing between the two. You’ll leave with clarity about what’s really keeping you stuck—and what it will take to create lasting change.
Consciously Single: The 6 Month Coaching Container
You’ll be part of a carefully curated circle of 6–8 like-minded women who see, know, and support one another—reflecting, modeling, and inspiring each other in ways that expand what’s possible. Because this way of thinking and operating isn’t reinforced by most of the world around you, the group gives you a consistent weekly space to remember your own role in the results you create and keep choosing differently. The Whole Woman Method™ is the thread that runs through the entire program, helping you tune inward, strengthen your relationship with yourself, and use that relationship as the foundation for lasting change.
Your aligned life
You know yourself. You trust yourself. You live fully from that place. You’re no longer looking to a relationship to fill a void or validate your worth. You feel whole—not because you’ve stopped wanting partnership, but because you no longer need it to feel whole. And if love comes, it meets you there: a partner doesn’t complete your life—they complement a life you already love.
In their words
What changes when you stop waiting to be chosen.
I spent years dating from panic — trying to be chosen. Julie helped me build a life I actually love on my own. Six months later, I met someone. From wholeness, not neediness.Karen, 58
I came in feeling invisible — like my life hadn't started yet. I felt ashamed. Now I know exactly who I am and what I want. The loneliness is gone. I'm clear and so confident in the direction I'm going.Diane , 52
Is this you?
You're capable and independent — and still quietly waiting for the relationship that will make your life feel complete. This program is for women who find themselves single and aren't enjoying it. And let me be honest: if you're not enjoying it, you're missing the whole point of being single.
This is for you if…
- You're ready to stop outsourcing your worthiness and build a real relationship with yourself.
- You're single — by choice, by loss, or by circumstance — and done waiting for life to begin.
- You want a grounded guide who's lived this work herself — not a guru with all the answers.
This isn't for you if…
- You're looking for dating tactics or a five-step formula to attract a partner.
- You believe a partner will fix the loneliness — this work happens on the inside.
- You'd rather outsource your worth to someone else's approval than root it in yourself.
Consciously Single takes women from waiting for their lives to begin to consciously creating and fully living the life they have right now — while developing the self-awareness, self-trust and relational skills to create, choose and become comfortable with healthier love when it arrives.
Know Yourself
Who am I?
See Yourself Clearly
Awareness through observation
Understand Your World
Models of the world & reality
Live Like You Matter
Wants, needs, values, boundaries, self-worth
Feel It All
Navigating emotions
Date Consciously
Self-worth, curiosity, discernment and connection
Your next chapter starts with you.
Thirty minutes, just us — no pressure either way.
Know yourself first. Choose yourself first. Then choose a partner from authenticity, not desperation.
Is this for me? Free call w/JulieMost women leave the call with one thing clearer than when they started. Whether you work with me or not, this call will add value to your life.